1) Timing is important - Timing as in on time. No matter what they say, there is no such thing as fashionably late. For the first date, this can give the guy jitters and make him think that youve stood him up. For the later dates, having him wait for you in the living room for half an hour with either your roommate, your sister or, worse, your father is not something you want him to do - whether it be for the embarrassing stories or Dads eyes of doom.
2) Keep your head on straight - Yes, we all know dates are supposed to be fun, but knowing whats going on is important both for your own safety and for your love life. Is your date acting suspicious or just nervous? Maybe youd want to end the date early or do something to calm him down. Is he taking notice of what youre wearing or just ogling? The choice to either wink at him or just stare knowingly is up to you. Is his attention on you or the girl next to you? You might wish to reward him with a smile or a slap. Situational awareness is not just for soldiers on the front but also for young women on the prowl.
3) Be nice - Have a positive attitude, find things that you like and tell him. Compliment him about his clothes, how he looks and how well the date is going. It puts him at ease and also makes him feel important. It also shows him that youre taking notice of him and you appreciate him. But, dont lie. Like I said, look at the bright side of things - the service of the restaurant may have been slow but the ambiance was terrific. Try making it into a habit, you arent lying - youre just being diplomatic!
4) Do not complain - This may be technically part of tip three, but it deserves a separate heading. This doesnt mean that you shouldnt tell him that something is wrong or something makes you uncomfortable. The way you phrase it and the tone you use is important here. , like we do with our girl friends, is not going to go over well with him since hell probably misinterpret it. Grin and bear it then tell him after the date in calm, reasoned tones your problem. Trust me, hell understand and hell try to make it up to you.
5) Enjoy the date - A date is a chance to get to know each other and to enjoy yourselves. Have fun during the date. Try not to be hyper-critical and just take things in stride. If youre not having fun, your date will notice and, trust me, he will get nervous which will probably start ruining the experience for both of you. Also, just let your guard down for a little while. Let him see the real you. He may or may not like it, but in the end he will appreciate the honesty of the act. Besides, if he doesnt like you for you, why should you keep on dating?
6) Afterwards, show interest - If you really like the guy, waiting for the call after a successful date is nerve-wracking. You know hes interested and youre definitely interested, youre just waiting for him to call you so you could arrange another date. Try giving him a day or two. He usually has to get his act together and work up the courage to call. If he doesnt call, hes probably still tongue-tied from being in your presence. Call him up to say hello. Talk about the date and how you had fun and give hints. No matter how dense he will pick up on it and hell probably be asking you for another date!
7) Be consistent - For those whove crossed the First Date Rubicon, try maintaining the impression you made on him on that first date. Men dont like surprises except, of course, if they plan them. This doesnt mean, however, that youll just give him the first date you. Talk to each other, both on and off dates, to get to know each other more. What he got on the first date was a sneak peek, what he should get from your continued dating should be the entire reel.
Well, there they are seven tips for dating success! Hopefully, this advice could help lead you through todays tough tangle of relationships. Happy hunting.
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Russian dating sites have become one of the most popular ways of connecting single men from all over the world with beautiful single Russian women seeking dating and marriage. Whether you are an American man seeking a Russian woman for dating, a European man hoping to find his Russian bride or even a single Russian man seeking a Russian woman for marriage, online dating services are great way to start your search.
Other features include chat rooms, instant messaging systems and video capabilities. Russian chat rooms are a great way to meet and chat to all the new ‘friends’ you would have already made. Chat rooms are highly interactive and use instant messaging allowing for a conversation to occur in real time. You will not only find Russian singles using these chat rooms but you will also find foreign singles such as American men and women all looking to join in the chat rooms. Some Russian chat rooms will be in Russian, but it is not uncommon to find English speaking chat rooms with hundreds of Russian singles.
The best way to get a response to your online personal ad is to add your picture to your profile. Although you can maintain a certain level of anonymity by using online dating sites, you can also eliminate singles with physical attributes that you do not find attractive. You can be as picky and as particular as you like because there will always be new singles signing up and adding their photo profiles. Russian dating sites give you the choice of selection that makes using a dating service easier than online dating.Finally on top of all these advantages online Russian dating sites offer the convenience and low cost that other dating site offer. You can meet Russian singles any time of the day, from the comfort of your own home, your office, the train, bus or anywhere else you have access to a computer. The cost of meeting single Russian women and men is very affordable as most Russian dating sites offer free standard memberships.With all these advantages on offer why would you not use Russian dating services to meet Russian singles and kick start your new personal life.
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And now that you can get the verse of TONS of women, my observe job-work is done, right?
Wrong. This is regular the FIRST STEP and youve got to remember that. Just because youve got a woman interested and even grant that you keep your relaxed intrepidity going in that place are abundance of places to stumble.
The Instant Date
Like what? This may surprise you, but you SHOULDNT take women on dates. That might sound strange, so Ill phrase it another way.
If you succeed a woman to dinner and a movie, youre asking to be strung along be pleased with a knitting clubs quilt. You set yourself up for totally sorts of mistakes what one. Ill dialogue touching in a second and youre precisely begging in opposition to uncomfortable silences and boring conversation.
Hey, you be feasible to make it work. You just ascertain by enumeration yourself toil a LOT harder.
So what should you carry into effect instead? Well, best-case scenario you bring into being an instant date. You go from meeting to GOING in some place, TOGETHER. This can shabby moving from the booksellers shop to a coffee shop, one lump to another or often, to begin, just LEADING a woman from one part of a bar to another.
Create a World
Thats a POWERFUL move. Say you want to tell her something (and have a part to tell her). Maybe it be possible to be about something you want to ceremony her at your house, in the manner of some album or a volume (terminated subtly, this is a great way to precedence to a house raise a short visit). Take her hand and LEAD her to a more secluded disgrace.
Dont put your hands all over her you look lost beyond recovery and pervy. But once youve led her somewhere, youve shifted the world a little bit you are in it TOGETHER. Maintain strong eye contact. Speak in a quieter, not to be communicated notes (the kind she wants to incline for support in to enjoy the sense of hearing).
Set yourself up that way, and it should exist a great quantity easier to possess yourself impressive to a different speck just off the wing-handed mammal. The grave thing is that you concentrate not on acquirement a woman to resting-place, but on impelling to the nearest step.
Once youve got a connection, the nearest step is changing settings likewise you reaffirm and strengthen that connection.
This is good in so many ways. It gives you a chance to get to know the girl quickly that is impressive when it happens quickly, plus it lets you conformation out admitting that the lady is virtue your time in front of youve invested a great deal of.
It feels natural matter even the best dates suspend requital at.
Its low-pressure merriment self-existent, without expectations or commitments.
Its just great. Not to cursory reference it allows YOU to risk the pace you go at.
Dont Push
Now, this isnt a part you ALWAYS do. If a girl is out through her friends you dress int want to enjoin in truth, for that intellect you should always set a time limit at what time youve started talking with a woman. I have to get posterior portion to my friends in a few minutes, but before that or I be delivered of to departure soon, otherwise than that leading
If the woman of distinction you like seems dexterous to follow, then you be able to say m going to xxx, its a good fault, you should come. SOMEONE necessarily to teach you what this city has to tender. (By the way, this is a KILLER line if youre not a local.)
Oftentimes the woman wont be able to join you as far as concerns whatever reason could be shes got plans even now, as luck may have it she doesnt want her girlfriends gossiping, she might merited have being sheer. Thats ok. You can muffle meet her still heres how you do it.
Dont Be Ordinary
Dont ask her to dinner. If possible, dont even ask her in push. A self-existent conflux at a coffee shop or going shopping in one eclectic propinquity with built-in conversation is august.
Your call should sound a thing like this: What are you doing perpendicular at this time? Im about to fit Java Joes, you should come and entertain me. m shopping for some clothes, and Id like a womans view. What are you doing at once?
Make sure youre going somewhere frolic. The kind of place with mysterious knick-knacks undivided round to such a degree youre converse can naturally flow from your external circumstances. Why do extra work while you can let the atmosphere help you?
Cant Buy Me Love
THIS is lock opener, and Ill confer about it again and again. DONT PAY. Especially with a woman youve just met. Paying says entirely the wrong things.
Women self-reliance read it different ways; in this places a few.
It says m not interesting, in like manner Im bribing you to spend time with me.
It says I come short to establish Im good mate material by showing done my financial good fortune.
Or the corollary: m insecure, in such a manner liking a man by a small penis and a hot sports car, Im trying to pervert with money myself some confidence.
Worse stop: I put ont really know you, bound I think youre choleric with equal understanding Im going to try and buy my regular chase into your jeans.
Equally cringe-worthy: I just paid for you. Now, what are you going to do with respect to ME?
Oh, allows not consign to oblivion the model production: m used to paying for women so theyll maintain me company. Feel unrestrained to smite advantage of that and bleed me for all I can take hold of, regardless of whether you in the manner of me or not.
And of course, by a unquestioned impressible denomination of ladies, youre saying m a sexist young hog. Now cook slut.
In occurrence, be able to you assert anything worthy by the agency of profitable? Well, you could have being saying m a nice, generous man. Great. We all know by after this how sexy that is.
No Early Meals!
This is one of the biggest reasons to help the dinner date, at least to begin. In addition to creating an awkward social setting through someone you barely know, you basically cogency every one of sorts of miserable thoughts with regard to the coin involved.
Coffee? Who cares about a coupla bucks?
Shopping? Youre not going to buy her affair, are you? That smells of bribery worse than dinner, and youll just rise her uneasy.
Avoid putting yourself in situations in which place the edition of payment comes up, and youll avoid this whole can of worms.
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Almost all the phone dating personals services have the same basic function where you have to register either by text or through their online services. You need to provide some personal information about you, like name, gender, age, location, hobbies, interests etc. You can choose any username that you want and your information in stored in a database which is accessed by other members of the phone online dating. So when you browse through the database and find someone to your interest, you can text to them and vise versa.
A Free Phone dating services is not totally free, but it most often refers to a free registration or particular services that are offered for a free trial period. The registration process itself is very simple and so most services offer it for free, but you will be charged for the text messages that you send to your date. When you ask for a specified information about a potential date that you are interested in, the phone company will usually charge you for sending that information, based on their standard rates.
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1. Going to the park.
Spring is a great time to take advantage of the great weather and plane a first date in the park. A picnic in the park can be very romantic and gives a large number of topics to discuss. Taking in the view and smell of the freshly grown flowers will defiantly put you and your date in the right type mood for a great first date.
2. Going to the beach.
The beach can be a wonderful place to take that special someone. There are many different activities to take advantage of while visiting the beach. Depending on what type of person your date is you have many different options to choose from.
1. Surfing
Surfing is a great way to connect with someone new and have a lot of fun in the process.
2. Sailing
Rent a sailboat and take your first date on a little adventure.
3. Bike ride
Explore the beach with your first date and burn a few calories while having some fun.
4. Jet skis
Need a little speed? Rent a jet ski and have a little fast fun while connecting on your fist date.
3. Going to an outdoor event or concert.
Many cities and towns have a large number of great events and live concerts during spring. This is a great way to watch a great concert while connecting with that special someone.
There are many great places and things to do on your first date during spring time.
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In these painful circumstances some are tempted to try what has characteristically become known as ‘missionary dating’. They take on an an unbelieving boyfriend in the hope that hell respond to the gospel and become an eligible option for marriage. Most people know at least one person who did this for whom it all worked out brilliantly. Some even married and the guy was converted. Praise the Lord. And it gives them sufficient reason to think that they might be able to repeat it. But no one really talks about the marriages that began to resemble car crashes.
I know of a number who have either tried missionary dating, are in the middle of trying it or face increasing pressure to try it. The blokes arent blameless. But its not as prevalent. How do we approach whats a matter of great sensitivity? Its worth remembering the following points.
1. Singleness is not inherently worse than marriage
The Bible teaches that both marriage and singleness have a central part to play in God’s purposes. Jesus was single and he was OK with that. He said that some will remain unmarried because they were born unable to marry, some will have singleness forced upon them by circumstances and still others will renounce marriage for the sake of the Kingdom [Matthew 19]. Paul takes up this theme in 1 Corinthians 7. But the point is that being single isnt the end of the world, or the end of a life. Its just different to being married.
2. Believers should not marry unbelievers
The Bible is crystal clear on this issue. The Old Testament didnt permit marriage with people who wernt part of the old covenant people of God. The New Testament applies the same standards to the new covenant people of God. The reasons for this are obvious. The believer and the unbeliever dont share the same spiritual status, they dont share the same spiritual priorities and they dont share the same spiritual destination. of this sort is fraught with difficulties.
3. Dating is a preparatory stage
Dating is not the same as marriage. So technically dating a non-Christian is not a sin. But lets not be idiots. We know where its heading. The biblical prohibitions against ‘mixed’ marriages dont sepcifically govern the dating period. But we mustnt be naïve about where these relationships are going. Dating is a culturally acknowledged convention during which marriage is being considered. If there’s no intention of marrying a partner it raises the issue of why an exclusive romantic relationship has been formed at all. If its all a bit of fun and romance then the warning lights ought to be flashing. This is a context within which theres increased temptation and opportunity for inappropriate sexual activity.
4. ‘Mixed’ marriages are fraught with difficulties
At the start of their married lives few people are able to look into the future and predict the problems that will arise. Paul alludes to the existence of tensions in 1 Corinthians 7 and church leaders would be able to flesh out the details from couples they’ve advised throughout their ministries. People need to see beyond the first few years of marriage and reflect on how life will operate once there are children. It’s often the case that single women dont think beyond the first five years of marriage. When the implications of a mixed marriage are spelt out they find it emotionally distressing. As they should. But we need to help them appreciate the difficulties ‘ahead of the game’. Were not making this stuff up. Its striking that in 1 Corinthians 7, Paul accepts taht a marriage could be so problematic that an unbeliever wants out. And he permits divorce under such circumstances.
5. Compatibility is overplayed but wise
Compatibility has some merits. In a knee jerk reaction to the overly stringent standards that we look for in a prospective marriage partner, it’s been suggested that as long as the person is a Christian, of the opposite gender, unmarried and not a close relative then we should go for it. I’m not persauded. We need to be wise not pious. Youve got to be clear that this is the person youd like to have a go at spending the rest of your life with. They may fit the four criteria but if you dont actually like them all that much, the writings on the wall! It doesnt take a rocket scientist, or indeed a relationship counsellor, to see where its heading! However, it would be worth remembering that no one is able to predict with any accuracy how circumstances will shape the development of our characters. Therefore what appears to be overwhelming compatibility in our twenties can become an occasion for disagreement and dissension in our forties.
So what do we do? These four things, at least.
Encourage repentance and faith
We need to encourage people to repent if theyve started inappropriate relationships. They need to entrust their futures to the Lord. Most of us find it difficult to trust the Lord when our lives are not going the way we would have designed them. But that’s when trust starts. Anyone can trust the Lord when things go as we’d like. We need to help people to resist the temptations to wallow in self pity and to harbour bitterness and resentment when things dont go as theyd choose.
Encourage compassionionate concern
Without being patronising, we ought to sympathise with friends in this situation. Most churches are not awash with young eligible men. Thats perhaps especially true of church plants. Theres a cost to staying and contributing to the gospel work of smaller churches. The bigger London churches look very attractive to a single 20 something! But lets not create the impression that life begins when you get married and everythings on hold till then. And lets not allow anyone to suggest that being single is second class.
Encourage male evangelism
The statistics of male to female proportions in local churches make depressing reading. In general our churches are not reaching men. One of the ways in which we can show love to those who struggle with this is to support and encourage male evangelism. There are better reasons for male evangelism than providing blokes for our sisters in Christ to marry. But it’s not an awful one. There can be times when the emphasis given to male activities or male evangelism in our congregations is unwelcome. Usually by the women! It sounds counter intuitive but when there are so many women in church to be catered for, we actually need more male orientated activities. It wont be popular, but its true. If we keep shaping the church programme to accommodate the girls we need to know what thatll mean. Itll mean that every bloke feels like hes walked in on a church that caters for women but not men. Itll mean that we dont prioritise mens discipleship and give this the resources and attention that it needs. And thisll mean that we wont reach unbelieving men with the gospel. Prioritising the women is, I would argue, short-sighted, counterproductive and unloving.
Encourage singles to keep serving
Paul doesn’t share our negative view of singleness. The ‘spinster’ may be a figure of fun, but the great Apostle thinks she’s fortunate. She has opportunities for ministry and undivided devotion to the Lord not enjoyed by those who are married. In our churches those who are single perform much of the influential ministry. It’s no coincidence that Dick Lucas, John Stott, Jonathan Fletcher and Vaughan Roberts have influential ministries. Theyre currently single. I think the ship may have sailed for Dick, Stotty and Fletch. Theyre not in our church, I know. But the point is that the Lord has used them for the good of the Kingdom and its hard to imagine that He could have done that if they had wives and kids to look after. Lets encourage single people not to waste the opportunities that God is giving them for useful service. Obviously one potentially significant ministry opportunity for single women is to to encourage their sisters who struggle with this issue. Our churches need mature single women whose open acknowledgement of struggles, honest biblical reflection and godly example is invaluable. Imagine the transformation that could be wrought in our younger women by the support of a handful of older sisters who can help them in their struggles and encourage them to flourish in the situation that God has called them to.
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Statement in Response to President Obamas Remarks made on the 27th or February 2009 regarding the proclaimed ending to the occupation of The Republic of Iraq.
Good Evening,
In Respect to the remarks of President Barak Hussain Obama, The president of the United States of America. The Political Committee of a number of factions in the Iraqi Resistance, mainly the factions present in our front, respond with our point of view on the contents of his speech.
Over the last four months, as the battle of our people continues to free Iraq of all foreign occupation. We have been studying the movements on the ground as well as analyzing the intelligence in order to assess the next strategy that the US administration will take under the leadership of the new presidency.
We had formulated our own plan of action based on the above mentioned, but have chosen to give the new president enough time to gather his thoughts and have a suitable amount of reports briefings that would give him also a good picture of the daily developments on the ground.
President Obama, After listening to your speech on the 27th of February 2009, in which you declared your general and public understanding of the ongoing war against our people, and gave your military and the honorable people of the United States brief points on your intentions in our country, we felt the spirit of the speech that your predecessor President JFK gave on the 20th of January 1961, on his inaugural address. In this speech, he offered a turbulent world, a way out of tensions and paid with his own blood for challenging the interests of those in your consecutive governments who hold the true keys to power. Those who would do anything to preserve their interests, wealth, power to create wars conflict.
We mention this with great honesty in hope to spread awareness and remembrance that a new Caesar may be betrayed, by his own, if he chooses to follow a different path. We do believe, on the other hand, that the spirit of the speech was well chosen.
We have listened well to your economic plans for your country released before this speech as well, and as ambitious as it may seem, we believe that if intentions are genuine within your congress, a considerable number of what you seek will eventually be fulfilled, but in case of failure, the republicans will be looking for a scapegoat to relate all their failures to. In this case it would be your administration. This will guarantee them a fast comeback.
You have inherited a nation at war, a failed economy, and a desperate people who are bearing the full brunt of an economic crisis that was not of their making. As well as thousands of young men dead and handicapped.
We have inherited a foreign occupation, endless counts of innocent dead, injured, and handicapped, millions of refugees, in essence, Mr. President, the complete and planned disintegration of our nation and people.
We believe that the funds wasted in this war would have been more useful if it were spent on research to develop alternative energy, which no doubt would have reduced energy conflicts, cures for cancer, agricultural solutions to prevent worldwide poverty, advancements to develop Africa, where people still die of starvation and intentional neglect. Endless causes, all in need of immediate attention.
By the will of God almighty, the resilience of our men, and the patience of our humble people, we have so far managed to halt and render useless all imperialist agendas set for Iraq and the region in whole. Simply by choosing to resist occupation, a right guaranteed by God first and then by international conventions to all men. A right your countrys policies continue to disrespect and dishonor, in clear example to state sponsored Terrorism.
You have spoken to our people in part of your speech, and we thank you for these words, you have displayed a far better understanding our nation, than your predecessor, who preferred to dive deep into the oceans of illiteracy and ignorance. Despite the fact that you did not mention the Iraqi resistance in your speech, and chose to label us as terrorists along with those who arrived with your troops, we will set that aside for now, and mention a few facts for the record.
1- The people of Iraq whom you addressed, in all their sects colors and religions, refuse your occupation, and those who accept it, are those who benefit from it.
2- The Iraqis you addressed, as we truly hope, are not the ones who bathe in the riches of treason, behind your walls of the green zone, nor are they the likes of Ahmed Al Chalabi, whom your previous government conspired with and his likes from the dark alleys of 5 star hotels in the US and Europe prior to your occupation.
3- The Iraqi people you talked to, are those who never invited your occupation, and were trying their best to survive on what was possible, under the criminal sanctions that went on for 13 years only to be crowned with a foreign occupation, unmatched in criminal acts, in todays modern world.
President Obama, The suffering, that our people had to go through is beyond comprehension. And the endless crimes of your troops as well as that of neighboring countries, cannot simply be undone or dismissed, nor can they be brushed under the carpet. Your troops still occupy the land and kill the innocent, that is why we can only address you as the president of an occupying nation.
The Iraqi People are disappointed in your plan. They expect your troops to leave our country in full and not in part. Our people, seek a complete end of occupation and not the fulfillment of a strategic treaty that was rushed against the will of our people, in the last few days of your predecessor.
Our people, as well as the majority of people around the world, and in your country, want to see the last president be presented to an international war crime tribunal for all the crimes he has committed in the name of your country, only to benefit those who brought him to power in the first place.
We have never invited your occupation, nor have we asked your country to steal our countrys resources to benefit your corporations and to those neighboring states which historically fall under your influence. We have never asked you for your precious blood or ours, to us, all blood is precious even that of the your soldiers sent by your government to die not knowing what they were truly fighting for. This has to be addressed to the man who started this war, and is hiding now in Texas, while you try to undo his damage.
We the Iraqi People and their resistance demand the following:
1- The fulfillment of all the conditions presented to your government through the mediators you
Sent in 2006.
2- The hand over of all the traitors Collaborators in the green zone to the Iraqi people where
They will be dealt with as any nation would do with in cases of high treason.
3- The full just compensation for our people for the losses they have suffered.
4- The halting of all compensations paid to those who fall under your umbrella in the region from the resources of our people.
5- The return of all land stolen from our country.
6- The departure of all foreign corporations mainly in the sectors of energy, communication, infrastructure rebuilding, specifically those linked to Neocon interests. Our people are more than qualified to rebuild and operate our institutions.
7- The hand over of all mercenaries accused of killing innocent civilians mainly security contractors in Black Water and their CEO to be tried for murder.
8- All foreign advisors are to leave Iraq with your troops.
9- The dismantling of all militias equipped by your country and Iran together to shift the nature of battle towards the sectarian nature in order to allow your troops to concentrate on the major resistance activities in the central region of Iraq.
10- The halting of all support to the sectarian government elected in the orchestrated elections in the green zone.
11- The reduction of the influence of your Persian allies in Iraq which your previous government worked with in close conjunction and who continue to fund Al Qaeda on behalf of your intelligence agencys behalf.
12- The return to the old constitution of a unified Iraq. And the Upholding of new elections
Within 6 months of the resistance taking power of the nation, this will be supervised,
By must be conducted in the presence of a number of credible international monitors. Not the ones
Sponsored by the CIA.
13- Cities and provinces are to be handed over one by one starting with the four main cities and airports of Baghdad, Basra, then Mosul and Kirkuk in the same order. The rest will fall immediately in our hands. The borders will have other arrangements.
The list goes on, but the intention is to give you an idea of what we pledged our people to achieve. In return for our peoples demands, we will cease to attack all occupation forces withdrawing to the south and beyond the border post of Safwan.
Without these straightforward moves on your part, we regret to inform you that the resistance of the people of Iraq will continue until that last boot of US/British/Persian occupation is thrown across the borders of our country.
If you choose change as you claim, then you must have reached the conclusion that to continue dealing with the same people your predecessor appointed to fulfill his dirty work, will fail to deliver positive results for both our people. It is not the thieves of the green zone who brought the defeat of your military.
You must search further for the honest Iraqis and from the ranks of our people and not those of your collaborators to achieve a just solution. You can also recognize the right for the Iraqi people to resist and publicly ask for our advice and representation. The Iraqi people intend to be masters of their own house as they always have, and by following the plan you have declared, you have not yet fully understood Iraq well.
There are those who will claim, that a quick withdrawal from Iraq will cause civil war, and that is a possibility, but we would also like to clarify that the forces of the puppet government which has been equipped to defeat the resistance will not stand ground, nor will they block our efforts to liberate our cities one by one if we had to, and all the efforts of your collaborators to move to the north and south of the country and create their own federal states have been studied well for their weaknesses and will be crushed within a short period. This is a more realistic scenario. True there will be still the Persian occupation which will offer its militias support, but we know that the US cannot leave the oil rich south to be occupied by Iran, and they would rather see it fall in our hands instead. As it would be giving too much to a close yet not so trust worthy ally, and would deprive your military necessary funds that would support long-term military presence necessary in Iraq and throughout the region. Funds that some in your government think they can still rely on. Funds that your economy can no longer bear in the midst of the turmoil in the globalized economy of your nation, to control the world.
The Iraqi resistance understands well that the US could not continue to sell oil at a high price
of 120 USD/Barrel to cover the costs of its war, as this strengthens old adversaries. And it would be only a matter of time before this tactic backfires on the US foreign policy. But it also understands that the US cannot fund foreign occupation any more without depending on local resources and revenues to cover the expenses. This is the true cause of the change of as you named it President Obama.
With oil prices falling to their true realistic market values, the winter ending in the consuming economies, the oil prices should fall to 30 USD plus mark, which is also effecting the local economies of your allies in the region, as anything below 55 USD per barrel, is already becoming a burden on these
economies, which in turn can no longer assist to their full potential in funding and supporting the costs of US aggression in the Region.
The Declining of oil revenues, which we truly thank you for mentioning in your speech, will make it more difficult to fund your militarys operations in Iraq, and that is why the numbers of your troops is to be reduced. To match the income predicted from the oil projects sponsored by your corporations in the south and the oil theft operations run by your agent, Hamid Jaffar in the north of Iraq in collaboration with NGO oil of Norway, is what your strategists think is possible.
Yes President Obama, we do agree with you, that the US needs a smarter, more sustainable comprehensive approach, but rest assured, that what your predecessor has failed to achieve with all the military might at his disposal, we will make sure that you will fail to achieve the same goals through the soft hand of the Democratic party.
In fact, it is more logical and practical to follow the alternative energy programs that you have set wisely, to ensure the non reliance of your economy on oil as well as the utilization of advancements and added fruits of R D to employ the unemployed, and support a new and young market for the shift in energy dependence, and in turn end the monopolization of energy, practiced by the corporations that control it and control world political and social stability, than to merely dream of expecting the Iraqi People to hand you over their resources.
We on the other hand intend to nationalize and use our resources to build an alternative energy base our selves and offer our people a life of prosperity, stability, as well as supporting the energy transition of other nations that are oil dependant, a task we truly believe is noble and worthwhile.
The Iraqi Resistance will not accept any short term or long term energy contracts with the US until we ensure that the rights of our people are properly addressed. And within the parameters of relations based on mutual respect first and mutual interests second.
President Obama, It is time that people in Washington understand that there are no shared interest between an occupying tyrant and an oppressed victim of occupation.
Your government would have stayed forever in Iraq if the traitors who conspired with your consecutive administrations had their way in starving the Iraqi people into submission and force them to welcome your occupying troops with flowers as Chalabi promised you. But after three wars and over a decade of sanctions, there were enough honest men to defeat the worlds most powerful army play a major role in destroying the most imperialistic Globalized economy ever developed by expansionary capitalism.
These are the type of people you are speaking to Mr. Obama. And if you were not presented with this reality throughout the briefings that occurred, and understood the true scale of the economic disaster with all the social and geopolitical implications of your military defeat in Iraq, then please allow us to mention a few of the major achievements that the Iraqi Resistance have promised its people and the free people of the world and has delivered:
1- We promised to pin down your troops in Iraq and drain your economy until you admit defeat and withdraw your troops. And this we fulfilled.
2- We promised to halt the US plan for Middle East in full, and prevent the loss of other innocent lives in other neighboring countries, and that we fulfilled.
3- We embraced the war and continue the fight on behalf of all the oppressed world, which not only stood still and watched the massacre of our people and the illegal occupation of our nation, but many of its leaders participated and continue in harming our people inside and outside Iraq and assist in the theft of our resources. This, apart from the support of honest people all around the world,
4- including citizens of your country, who marched day and night to support the cause of Iraqs right to resist, marches that defied the weather, and weathered criminal defiance and ignorance of world politicians. Marches that we will ever be indebt to, and in gratitude in appreciation for. May god bless those people wherever they are. And this we fulfilled and continue to do so.
5- We have understood the nature of international balances of power and most importantly predicted the primitive mind of the occupation and played a major role in forcing the US to increase oil prices in clear desperation for cash. And use that to allow other powers to recover. And the numbers never lied, this we also fulfilled.
6- The Iraqi People wrote a new chapter in Urban warfare, and invented the art of remote combat, and in turn gave the world lessons and set a new standard in how to defeat the worlds most powerful army. In this, the most dangerous achievement that threatens US global influence is that all the oppressed people who suffer from negative US influence, can use this experience to free themselves as well. This also has been delivered.
7- The Resistance has already drafted its 2, 5 and 10 year plan to engage Iraq in rebuilding programs that will set a new standard for development in the Region and restore Iraq to its rightfully earned place in world politics and positive human development. This while maintaining Iraqs isolation from harmful neighboring countries at the same time, these plans was prepared and drafted in the early months of 2007 and are ready to implement once we see the end of your occupation.
8- The resistance created a new battle field and utilized every tool available to break free of the corporate media and tell, inform, and educate the world of the true nature of the struggle, and present every curious man and woman daily reports and videos of your militarys defeat and in every language possible. People from all over the world, chose out of their own free will and time, people of different religions and backgrounds chose to be soldiers of the cyber wars and translated all what we had to tell, asking nothing in return but the truth. The true casualties of your war are yet to be declared. (We refer to the green card soldiers)
9- The resistance has sparked not only the collapse of the US economy, but also caused the domino effect and the destruction of your fine tuned and delicate Globalized economy, and forced the return to national economic protection, and the rights of local and regional economies to grow and ensure a decent life and practice their right to develop as well. All your efforts to restore the globalized economy will deliver nothing of value, and puppet governments that maintain your oversight of world resources will eventually fall, one after the other, as their faults will be more evident to their average citizens, and that is why you are now receiving daily reports, from the CIA about the world economy.
ALL THE ABOVE, AND YOU STILL CHOOSE TO IGNORE THE RESISTANCE OF THE IRAQI PEOPLE AND THE RESISTANCE OF THE GLOBAL ALLIANCE OF THE FREE, WHICH WE INTENT TO PROPOSE TO THE WORLD AS THE NEXT STAGE OF FREEING THE PLANET FROM YOUR DOMINENCE WHEN THE TIME IS RIGHT.
ALL THIS SAID, AND THE GLOBAL MEDIA WHICH YOU STILL MAINTAIN CONTROL OVER STILL LABELS FREE PEOPLE AS TERRORISTS AND EQUALS THE RESISTANCE OF OCCUPATION WITH CRIMINAL ACTS OF STRIKING CIVILIANS IN BUILDING AND TERRORISING THE LIVES OF THE INNOCENT.
TRULY IRONIC !! Nevertheless represents the true state of shock you policy makers have reached. But all can be reversed if you truly believe in Change Mr. President.
The resistance along with the votes of the peace loving people in your country and choice of the world
Who brought you to power, are more than capable to pull you down and defeat your new strategy, if you choose to lie to them and follow the plans of your predecessor.
You must understand that the time when your foreign policy bullied and bribed people into submission is over and for a considerable time. And your politicians and strategists have to understand that to be accepted as a superpower you must first learn to speak to the world with modesty and respect that others in this planet, also have the right to provide for their families a decent life, the right to food and water, the right to education and knowledge, the right to industry and employment, and free from your corporate despotism.
We in the Iraqi resistance, renew our pledge to our people and to our brothers and sisters in the global family, to continue the fight and struggle to free Iraq and give our allies the chance to follow suite.
While you were preparing your new strategy in leaving the streets and highways of Iraq to your collaborators, and hiding your troops behind the walls of the castles and green zones you have prepared for your minimized long term presence, we have been preparing to address your new tactics and will deal with them in the proper manner.
Remember, that hiding behind and holding castles is no longer sustainable in modern warfare!
Your finest fighting force as you name it, is up against the most witty, resilient innovative self-propelled resistance honorable humanity has ever presented. Rest assured that we are not impressed with your plan and will follow your movements on the ground and cross examine them to your declared intentions and daily economic reports. There is no such thing as friendly occupation, and we advise you to revise your plans to vacate Iraq at a time suitable for our people and not suitable for your agents in the green zone.
And if you need to talk to honest Iraqis, then you know very well, where to find them. John F Kennedy also said Let us never negotiate out of fear, but never fear to negotiate
You choose to negotiate with all the parties that worked for your predecessor and have caused all this harm, yet you choose to ignore the only true party that can offer you a decent outcome.
Good Luck President Obama!
Radfidan
The Political Committee
Baghdad The Republic of Iraq
The 3rd of Rabi' Awwal 1430 H
The 28th of February 2009 M
http://www.albasrah.
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To be irrevocably in love with a vampire is both fantasy and nightmare woven into a dangerously heightened reality for Bella Swan. Pulled in one direction by her intense passion for Edward Cullen, and in another by her profound connection to werewolf Jacob Black, a tumultuous year of temptation, loss, and strife have led her to the ultimate turning point. Her imminent choice to either join the dark but seductive world of immortals or to pursue a fully human life has become the thread from which the fates of two tribes hangs.
Now that Bella has made her decision, a startling chain of unprecedented events is about to unfold with potentially devastating, and unfathomable, consequences. Just when the frayed strands of Bellas lifefirst discovered in Twilight, then scattered and torn in New Moon and Eclipseseem ready to heal and knit together, could they be destroyed forever?
The astonishing, breathlessly anticipated conclusion to the Twilight Saga, Breaking Dawn illuminates the secrets and mysteries of this spellbinding romantic epic that has entranced millions.
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Most modern feminists, or "independent" women as they like to call themselves, would make the argument that they don't need a man. They may even go forward to quote some famed blues musician, and state "They can do bad by themselves". Well, that's exactly what they will do. (But that's not what this lesson is about. We will discuss this further in a lesson called pseudo independence.) We are, whether you like it or not, co-dependent beings. It's how we were created; man and woman, two parts of one whole. Now that's not to say the two can't successfully exist separate of one another, that's just saying they weren't intended too. The original intent was to provide balance to, and support for one another. Our co-dependent nature extends beyond procreation, which is the most obvious; we need one another to perpetuate our existence. However, I will contend that we need each other for spiritual solidarity.
Cuddling, in its most basic form reinforces this need; it reaffirms our roles in life. That's right, I said roles. We all have roles, the problems exist when most of us don't realize what they are, and when we do, we fail to act in them. Now, don't be misled by the word "role". That in no way is intended to be connotative of what most people believe about roles. Nor is it to suggest that one gender has greater, physical or spiritual authority than the other. Their positions in life are actually equal; their roles are just different. Their positions have to be equal. If they are not, it disrupts the balance of things.
So when we engage in the physical art of embracing and caressing, we are in fact saying to one another (non-verbal communication), that I acknowledge your position in my life as nurturer, provider, supporter, and protector. In layman's terms, we are saying that regardless to what's going on in life, no matter what obstacles we are facing, "Boo I got you". We are saying, it's okay to be yourself around me; you don't have to pretend, because I won't judge. We are saying I acknowledge you as a potential spiritual counterweight, and basic physics teaches us what a counterweight provides. It provides balance; balance is the equivalent of harmony, which is the equivalent of peace. Peace only comes from the creator. We have to make the conscience decisions for things to be balanced, the rest happens accordingly.
(Note: Those of us who understand the multiplicity of our actions are consciously processing and engaging in this type of behavior; the rest are simply regurgitating learned behavior. The inclination for the action remains the same, yet the understanding of the action is vastly different.)
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Losing someone you love can be devastating, and feeling alone in it all can make the days and nights seem endless. Breaking up is hard to do- especially if youre not the one who wanted the split. Regardless, there are ways to deal with the pain while making a plan to get her back.
Where to Start?
Youve got to start with you. Stop everything for a bit and focus on you. Are you eating enough? Getting enough sleep and exercise? Youll be no good to anyone if you dont care for yourself. Keep up with a good work out program, stay shaved and well-groomed.
Resist the urge to overdo the alcohol. You need to stay clear right now, and alcohol only dulls the pain temporarily. You are going to go through some intense sadness and some loneliness, but you will get through to the other side.
Resist the Urge to Call
Resist the urge to contact your girlfriend. Dont invent reasons to call or visit her. Absolutely do not cruise her work or her mothers house or the club she frequents. That will not score you points and could be construed as stalking! Stay cool for a while. It wont be time to call until you are feeling less vulnerable.
If you see her, tell her you are fine and that you hope you can still be friends. Your unexpected casualness may cause her to let down her guard and begin thinking about things.
Ouch! Admit You Could Have Done Better
Even if you werent directly the cause of the break up, find a way to let her know you could have done better. Spend some time thinking about the way you were with her. Women need to feel valued. They want to be told they are beautiful and intelligent. They want your admiration and respect. Your girlfriend wants you to see her as the sexiest woman alive- at least in your eyes. She needs to hear it often. Daily.
Did you listen to her? Were compliments, hugs and gentle touch daily habits? Let her know you goofed up. If you cheated on her or gave her a reason to distrust you, tell her youre sorry. But dont beg. Just let her know youve been thinking.
Extend Yourself Thoughtfully
This is tricky, but it can work. If you need to drop some of her things off, include a small gift that shows you remember who she is, and why you liked her to begin with. A CD of her favorite group, a book by a favorite author, or- and this is very effective- a beautifully bound blank journal. Your girlfriend will be taken a back by your thoughtfulness. Her response may surprise you. But it may take more than one time. Just dont overdo it.
Remember her birthday. If she has children, remember their birthdays. Try to be sincere but somewhat detached. And always appear confident and in control when you see her. Your strength will be a powerful magnet!
Bide Your Time- Then Make Your Move
Chances are your girlfriend is going to be missing you, despite evidence to the contrary. Even if shes begun a new relationship, you were in her heart first and you can win her back. Remembering these important hints can help you regain her affection and eventually put you in a position to be more direct with your desire to have her back.
Really search your soul- What could you have done when you were with her to keep her tuned in and turned on to you. Write it down and list some practical ways you could improve. Dont throw this list away!
Keep your attitude good- Get counseling if you feel youre going under with the pain of your separation. Stay physically and mentally active. Attend to your spiritual self by meditating or listening to self-development tapes.
Let her know youre still there for her- Caution: Fine line here! You need to present as caring but not crazy. Simple thoughtful gestures can keep you connected to her without generating her resistance.
Tell her how you feel- When youre in a stronger place, let her know how you feel. Tell her you were at fault, without rehashing the breakup. Really listen to her thoughts and feelings. Let her know you still desire her and want her back.
Then back off- Tell her youll wait, and that you dont need an answer now. And mean it. If shes worth waiting for, then wait.
Dont wait forever- Decide in your heart what a reasonable time to wait is- but dont tell her. She does not need an ultimatum. It might be reasonable to wait a few weeks, or a few months. Youll know in your heart and mind how long is long enough. Chances are, shell be phoning you or knocking on your door within days or weeks if youve continued the occasional thoughtful and upbeat contact. And if she doesnt, youll be strong enough to take it and move on.
Remembering that life is an adventure and often unpredictable will help you weather this downturn. Your sadness, anger and loneliness is natural and it is real. But you can go through this- and come out better and stronger on the other side.
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